News about the coronavirus (COVID-19) can be alarming, with daily reports of rising case counts and tragic losses. Nursing homes and other senior living communities often make headlines when residents or staff test positive. While that is deeply concerning, it’s important to remember that many communities have strict infection-control protocols for contagious illnesses like the flu, stomach viruses, and COVID-19. Most are working diligently to protect residents, though those who live in assisted living and long-term care are among the most vulnerable, which makes these stories especially heartbreaking.
Alongside the difficult reports, there are many uplifting stories of resilience, hope, and connection among senior living residents—especially those in independent living. I’ve heard firsthand accounts from residents in continuing care retirement communities (CCRCs) who are finding creative ways to stay engaged and supported. Those examples underline how adaptable and resilient today’s seniors can be, even during trying times.
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Reconnecting with long-time friends
One WAMU Radio report shared the story of Frank and Mary Longwell, residents of Riderwood Senior Living Community, a CCRC in Silver Spring, Maryland. With social distancing in effect, they’ve embraced video calls to stay in touch with children and grandchildren. Frank has also used the extra time to reconnect with lifelong friends by phone and email—reaching out to college buddies, military comrades, and former colleagues he hadn’t spoken to in years.
Frank describes the conversations as meaningful and affirming: checking in with old friends, comparing notes on how different areas are responding, and making plans to reunite when it’s safe. Those renewed connections have become a source of comfort and a reminder that relationships can be strengthened even without face-to-face contact.
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A shared sense of community
Ninety-four-year-old John Gould, who lives in independent living at The Overlook at CC Young in Dallas, was featured in a local newspaper piece highlighting how elders are coping. A World War II veteran who enjoys playing trumpet and woodworking, John adapted to changes such as shifting church services online and pausing in-person band practice. Despite those losses, he expresses gratitude for his CCRC “family.”
John values the friendships and mutual support within his community. He observes that neighbors in independent living share both good and bad times and believe they’ll get through this together. He also worries about older people who live alone without a support network, noting those individuals face increased fear, isolation, and practical challenges that make them especially vulnerable right now.
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Creative outlets
Across the country, CCRCs and retirement communities are finding imaginative ways to help residents not just cope, but thrive. Initiatives and activities include:
- Socially distant block parties and singalongs
- Sewing groups producing cloth masks for community members and healthcare workers
- Parades to celebrate birthdays and anniversaries from a safe distance
- Special menus, wine-tastings, or themed food events delivered to residents
- Signs and messages of gratitude crafted by residents for staff
- Zoom classes for exercise, lectures, or hobby groups to keep residents engaged
- Coordinated balcony or patio cheering events to honor healthcare workers
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An enduring spirit of resiliency
Residents in independent living are doing their part to help “flatten the curve” and reduce the risk of exposing more vulnerable neighbors to COVID-19. That sometimes means feeling confined—unable to leave campus or hesitant to return if they go out. With schools and many businesses closed and travel restricted, that sense of limitation is familiar to people of all ages right now.
Visitor restrictions are particularly hard on residents who miss in-person time with family. Dining rooms may be closed, with meals provided to-go or delivered to apartments instead. Though difficult, these measures prioritize the safety of every resident and staff member.
Despite the challenges, many CCRC residents express deep gratitude for their caregivers and a renewed appreciation for the community around them. Their resilience, creativity, and supportive attitudes offer lessons we can all apply: staying connected, showing gratitude, and looking out for the vulnerable among us.
We’re in this together.