The issue of ageism has received increasing attention recently. It’s hard to say whether ageism is actually worsening or if we are simply more aware of it. The aging of the Baby Boomer generation combined with longer lifespans means there are more older adults than in past decades. According to U.S. Census data, there are roughly 47.8 million people aged 65 and older, and that population continues to grow. At the same time, society is becoming more mindful of how people are treated and the language we use toward older adults.
Whatever the reason, research and surveys indicate that older adults are often undervalued and subject to negative stereotypes. In a 2001 study of people aged 60 and older conducted by researchers at the Duke Center for the Study of Aging, 80 percent of respondents reported experiencing ageism.
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These attitudes about aging frequently shape the misconceptions people hold about retirement communities.
Misperceptions about senior living communities
“Who wants to live with a bunch of old people?” is a common reaction when someone mentions moving to a continuing care retirement community (CCRC) or another type of senior living community. You might hear this from friends or family, or it may be a belief you hold unconsciously—preventing you from even considering a move.
That reaction often stems from the false idea that older people are no longer valuable, interesting, or active. For many, memories of outdated nursing-home stereotypes persist, even though senior living options have evolved dramatically. Today’s retirement communities offer a wide range of living choices designed for active, engaged older adults.
The real deal
From visiting hundreds of senior living communities over the years—most of them CCRCs—I’ve found that many residents are intellectually curious, accomplished, and socially active. Residents often include former executives, business owners, professors, scientists, entrepreneurs, veterans, and high-ranking military officers. Many have made notable professional or civic contributions over the years.
Far from the “old folks’ home” stereotype, many CCRC residents continue to live active lives and contribute to their local communities. Some give lectures or workshops, volunteer with local organizations, serve in houses of worship, or pursue athletic hobbies like golf, tennis, and hiking. For residents with declining physical capabilities, community life still provides social connection and meaningful activities.
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One memorable example: on a visit to a CCRC I met a resident who leads a three-mile bike ride three times a week for her exercise group. She was clearly more active than many people her age and an example of how CCRC life contradicts tired preconceptions.
Below are examples of several residents who chose CCRC living and remain engaged in satisfying, active lives. myLifeSite collaborated with Senior Correspondent to highlight these personal stories.
- Julia Wood, a resident of Galloway Ridge in Pittsboro, N.C., says, “When my husband and I retired from 40-year faculty careers, we were in our sixties, healthy, and active, so we had no interest in a senior community. Maybe later, we thought, but we’re not ready yet. Six years after retiring, we are living in a senior community, and we love it. We don’t need to live here, but we choose to because it enriches our lives.”
- Jim Patrick recalls moving from Seattle to an active senior community in Tucson and later choosing to relocate to Judson Park in Des Moines, Washington. He says life in a retirement community “has been anything but boring,” with fitness classes, continuing education lectures, trips, social activities, and volunteer opportunities keeping him and his wife engaged.
- Janice Daniels shares, “We have lived at Royal Oaks in Sun City, Arizona, for two years and feel truly blessed knowing that we made a smart choice. Royal Oaks is vibrant, has great management and staff, wonderful residents, and modern technology with a top-notch IT department.”
These residents are not passively closing the book on life; they are pursuing interests, volunteering, learning, and enjoying active social lives. They chose CCRCs as a lifestyle decision that supports continued enrichment, not as a last resort.
That said, retirement communities vary in atmosphere and offerings. While this discussion focuses on independent living options—such as 55+ communities and CCRCs—rather than assisted living or nursing homes, the culture of a community is often shaped by its leadership and staff. Visiting several communities and spending time on campus will help you assess the energy, values, and activities that best match your lifestyle.
The numbers game
If you’re considering a CCRC or another senior living option, don’t let age-based stereotypes or preconceived notions dictate your choice. Many residents lead vibrant, fulfilling lives with active social calendars and meaningful roles. While every move has its own challenges, most residents report satisfaction with their decision to relocate. When you visit communities, talk directly with residents to hear their experiences.
myLifeSite provides resources on more than 500 CCRCs nationwide and offers a free online community search tool to begin your research. Exploring your options early gives you time to find a CCRC that fits your goals, interests, and desired level of activity.